REJECT HIS PROPOSAL NICELY... Ladies, learn how to say NO.

 

There is a thin line between being nice and leading a guy on, its a tricky puzzle to really know how to say no to a guy nicely. As a young girl, most my life so far has countless guys coming at me, and I can't be with all of them,some have to be turned down, but how? Most times girls know if you're going to be that guy or not the very first time you ask them out, and they don't want to be rude, its mature and respectful not to be rude, guys have feelings too, but sometimes trying to be nice leads the guy on...Tricky. Never say yes because it is too difficult to say NO. You can try these ways of saying no. (Men can adopt this too in reversed cases)

 

1. Say the truth. When you say the truth, it saves you a lot of time and saves the guy postponed heartbreak. Tell the guy the truth about your relationship status, if you're in a relationship tell them you're seeing someone else, don't be shy.       
2. don't lead a guy on by allowing himself and you to be in the same place alone,this kind of gives the guy the impression that you are positive and it will lead him to expecting a good answer,also being alone in a room with a guy give the guy the space to be able to talk to you about private things on insist on asking you out.                               
3. Say "No". Seeing is believing but in this case hearing is believing. Speaking out the words will express how firm you are on turning down the proposal much more than showing it.                       
4. Tell the guy he is making you unhappy by putting pressure, tell him how you really dislike him stalking you and his persistence simply makes you loose appetite.                                             
5. Don't pretend you don't like him if you actually do. If you pretend just to play hard to get, you'd send out confusing signals. Tell him yes if he has a chance and no if he doesn't.  Don't say " no" and show "Yes".    
   Appreciate a man for asking you out, and beg him not to persist. I remember saying strong prayers in my mind "please don't ask me out"
                                                                           
6. Tell him you're not connected. You can't force a connection. You can say this also when you don't like his hair, fashion taste, or looks and you feel you can't fix it.                                                                 
7. Cut him off. He bargained for it, because you tried all the decent ways he hasn't gotten the point, so you're now free to ignore his calls, avoid him, and basically be rude.  Your man will certainly like this one.                                                         NOTE: Why unlike men,women find it hard to say no.     Men are expected
   to assert themselves and
   speak their mind; that's what gives
   them status in our society," says
   social psychologist Susan Newman"They learn to say no early
   on because if they don't, they're
   labeled wimps.
   On the other hand, women earn
   praise for playing nice and cooperating.
   "As girls, we're singled
   out for being helpful," says Newman.
   "This manifests in adulthood
   as an eagerness to please and
   gain others' approval, typically by
   agreeing to assist anyone who asks." In
   fact, the female need to please is so
   ingrained that many chicks equate
   saying no with saying "I don't care
   about you," adds Newman.