TOO MANY ROMANCES...for one person

 

     1? 4? 7? 10? 20? What really is the right number of men to date in a lifetime? I am just in my twenties and yet I have quite an elaborate number of men I've dated, most times I wonder to myself in shame if it was really the search for true love or dissatisfaction. To be bruttaly honest its both.
  Its a popular saying that "you can't have it all" I don't agree with that. I believe that if you want, you can have it all. This doesn't mean I should have all men, it simply means believe I can find a man that will make me so happy, with him I would have it all, the search for this man has led me to being with a number of men beyond the number of fingers on one hand.

Some women like Kim Kardashian and Jennifer Lopez have a long trail of men like the train on their wedding gowns, and even with that crowd of exs, Kim has managed to find love in the package she wants, but then the fact that you want your kids to model someone like Beyonce who has a long history of being with just one man, says a lot about having too many romances.  

Lovers always want some exclusiveness of ownership, no one wants to know their lover has been with the whole manhood or womanhood even of its at different tims. Reserve something for the special one.

  Now, between you and I, how much is too much?
    I hope and pray, and above all believe that I've come to my destination in men, and I have a few words from experience... Be patient, you can't taste the whole menu to pick what you want to eat. And in the laboratory of relationships, experiment with as few specimens as possible.
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