DATING BITCHES

@JoleetaDiva

...If your mother or your aunt has ever told you to always go with a friend when visiting a guy, or don't hang out with a guy at night, then you should still hold on to that old school advice...some friends have snatched the man through that but if he's yours, he won't do that or he'll come back.

On that Friday night, I neglected my mother's advice. I had never met the guy, and I can't remember giving him my number, but he claimed that we allegedly met in UJ and I allegedly gave him the number...I still can't recall that.

The first time he was insisting for us to hang out, I sensed some rudeness in his voice...he said I should meet him at British Junction, so I agreed...I tried getting a cab but they didn't have change so amid grumbling he agreed to come over.

He was wearing this Niger-Delta cap, and he drove an old Mercedes car. I wanted to hang out somewhere close, but he insisted to take me where he wanted. I should have suspected by that time.
So we drove into town to the Civil Service Club. I had Isiewu and some Malt. He took some beer and Isiewu too...I started talking about going home...we lingered for a while there, but I had told him earlier that I wanted to get back home before 9pm and he promised to drop me.

So 10:30pm driving out of the hangout spot, and suddenly he drove into a gate...I made it clear that I wanted to go home now, I'm not interested in his house. We entered inside however, and I sat on the bed...he gave some very boring pictures to watch,
I could careless.

11pm, I really want to leave, I stood up to the door, and he asked why I was acting funny, are you serious? I'm acting funny? Wow! I went out to the car, expecting him to come out, beg for forgiveness and drive me home, he wasn't out in five minutes...I went back inside, I told him to open the car so I can pick my purse since he was unwilling to drive me home. This bitch went out and opened the car for me, when I picked my purse, he went back inside.

On the streets I never known or walked, there I was, after a date. I didn't know where I was walking to, so I started walking towards the direction of where I could hear the sound of passing cars...a car stopped to pick me up for the night, I began to run.
What if I was kidnapped and murdered after being raped? What will my mother do? How about my dreams? My sisters, my friends?

Then here comes this Keke who agreed to take me to my house for just 250naira...God is Great. And that bitch???? I can't date a bitch like that...bitch ain't even worth my presence.

I have placed a ban on myself, no more hanging out with guys. #NoMoreDatingMen.
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