HOW MUCH DO YOU LOVE YOU?

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It has been well over a year and a half since I personally had any emotional turmoils in my life. The last time I had such issues, I told my heart touching story to anyone that had the time to listen to my almost self inflicted pain. I call it self inflicted because now an older, stronger happier and better me understands that I was holding on too tight that my partner quickly lost interest, I was also attracting a heart break to me by reading stories of relationship dramas, listening to songs that had that message, and also by having this erroneous belief that I have to sacrifice myself to satisfy my partner, but now I attract better, because I have the power, and I have a choice, and I recognize that I do. Well...today I want to talk to people who are going through one heart break or another. I recognize the fact that people always go through stuff even though everything may seem like fresh ice cream on the outside. To you who goes through relationship turmoils I say, you may not know or accept this, but you always have a choice to remain or to leave. Whatever you choose to do, just know that your relationship is only a reflection of what is going on inside you as an individual. Criticising and judging how your relationship is now would be like looking at your image in a mirror, and trying to adjust the hair or the lipstick or something in the reflection, its going to be a futile effort adjusting the reflection, let's adjust the original copy, and the reflection would immediately change. To make your relationship better, first you should write down a list of twenty good things about yourself, the list can include personal, work, emotional, fashion, creative and financial things, things that make you feel good about yourself. You see, you have to be in harmony with you before you can be in harmony with others. You have to love the good things about you, and then of course if you are in love and harmony with you, people around will have no option but to be magnetised to you, including your partner. Your first assignment is you...To be continued.
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